How to Be Irresistible to Women

Do you want the cool girls to start looking in your direction? Do you have your eye on someone that you would really love to attract in all the right ways? Well, this guide is written by a girl for all you boys out there.

Steps

1. Do not play hard to get. A girl always rises to a challenge but if she thinks it is too much, she will probably invest her time in something (and someone) more worthwhile.

2. Find out what a girl likes by trying to work it into the conversation and then go out and buy the spray of cologne. It will drive her crazy. Just make sure that you do not use too much; a little bit is good but over-applying makes her want to run away.

3. Tell good jokes but do not try too hard. Experiment; find out what makes other people laugh and see if she reacts the same. Even if it does not make her giggle, you will be one step closer to learning how to make her laugh.

4. Compliment a girl the right way. Watch closely when you are around her. You can probably tell from, for example, how romantic and sappy she is, say on Valentine's Day, or is she adorns her folders with cute animals and hearts. If she does, she probably like it if people are sappy to her. In this case, lay on the compliment, but do not get too overboard. If you find out that she does not do any of these things, she might find it strange, creepy and intimidating if you compliment her too much. Keep the compliments subtle but nice and compliment her one feature that she would not think you would notice.

5. Smile. The best thing that boys can do is smile. It helps if you have a nice smile and she definitely will love it to see you smile and see that you know how to lighten up and put a cheer on you face. Be happy, though, do not take life too seriously and show her that you can laugh and you are exciting.

6. Always be there for her…but when she needs you to be. Do not totally stalk her and listen to all of her conversations but when she looks upset or sad, gently ask her if she is okay and try to help her cheer up. Try and use some of the techniques from Step Three to make her laugh. She will like you so much more if she knows that you are always on hand with a big smile and a caring heart.

7. Be daring. Most girls do not like boys who always live by the rules; going to bed at nine o’ clock PM and studying like crazy. They also do not like boys who only talk about computers and math. If you are guilty of any of these things, change your ways or find a different girl. Do not just talk; listen and when it is your turn to talk, be interesting. Do not be boring; be exciting and different.

8. Be social. Do not let her think that if she stops talking to you that will be the end of the world. This sounds kind of bad but do not just stick to her. Live freely. Do not let her think that you are completely stuck on her, even if you are. If she sees you flirting with other girls, she will want you more but she might write you off as a lost cause if you look like a complete player.

9. Be sweet. On valentines day, get her a little teeny gift or a card or something. Don't worry, she won't embarrass you if she doesn't like you back.

Tips

• Personal hygiene is a must. Do not be disgusting, do not smell like a skunk, and do not have hair like a chimp, and keep your fingernails clean.

• Do not be too loud or too proud. If you love yourself and you do not let anyone else be number one for a while, people are soon going to start avoiding you.

• Be friendly; remember all the things that adults and other people have ever told you about how to treat girls and having manners.

• Be nice to all girls, DONT FLIRT WITH ANYONE BUT HER!!!, but be nice and courteous. You never know what might get back to her.

• Try to give her few surprises girls just love surprise.(that doesn't mean buying her lots of things!)

• when you see her make sure to greet her with a smile before you say anything. that makes her
comfortable and welcomed.

Warnings

• Do not be a “typical boy” around girls. Sure, the boys may think that passing wind is funny and the boys may think that pulling girls’ hair is funny but be respectful in front of her. Girls just think these kinds of things are childish and annoying. Be different from all those immature idiots and show her that you can be mature.

• Do not be rude or dirty; some girls may think dirty comment are funny and flirty but most girls find them creepy and wrong. Do not bother if you ever want to get a girlfriend.

• Do not be the geek in the corner with no friends. Attract the right attention instead of looking like the person no one wants.

• Some girls are just as shallow and immature as some boys. For them, some of these games will
probably work. The problem is, as soon as this game is over, you have nothing left but to start nother game with someone else.

• Remember, there is a huge difference between “being popular” and “being loved”. Most really popular kids are not really happy about it. They hate being constantly used by others to look more popular themselves. What is good advice for people to feel popular because they have a bunch of (even more) insecure people hanging onto them is not good advice for someone looking for a great and longlasting relationship with another person.

• Remember that real relationships are complex things with stuff happening on different levels all at the same time.

• DON'T BE OVER CONFIDENT- it always makes you do lots of complimenting and talking...about yourself.

• don't brag about yourself(if there is something to brag about). it always makes you seem attention seeking and typical.